Detox Your Love Life

Detox Your Love Life

6-Weeks to Ending Toxic Relationship Patterns and Attracting a Loving and Trustworthy Long-Term Partner

Are you ready to NEVER find yourself in another toxic relationship ever again and attract a partner who you feel safe opening up to, who would never hurt you because they love you so much that they wouldn’t risk losing you, and who you're proud to introduce to your family and friends because you're both ready to take the next step together?


Yes? I hear you and I’ve got you!

I know you’ve given your all and tried to make past relationships work only for them to fail and have your heart broken over and over again.

And even though you might think it’s all your fault because you’re quick to blame yourself, I’d like to tell you that it isn’t because ...

It’s hard to know if a relationship is healthy if you’ve never truly been modelled one!

And so it’s no surprise that you may have found yourself with partners who lie, cheat, criticise, control, abuse you, or treated like you didn’t deserve any respect, consideration or affection when you quite possibly grew up without great relationship role models in your home, by the media, or in your social circle. 

Whatever it was – it most likely created a subconscious belief inside your brain about what a healthy, functional, and supportive relationship looked like – and that may have influenced how your current relationship success is turning out.

It’s NOT your fault, but you’ve got to change it now!

I’m here to teach you what healthy love looks like so you never have to endure another toxic relationship ever again.

You’re ready for all of this and more and we both know it!


So how can you make it happen?

Say affirmations and surround yourself with crystals? No.
Learn 5 magic words to attract and manifest your soulmate? Noooo.
Spend a decade with a generic counsellor and retell your toxic relationship story over and over again until you’re blue in the face (but still aren’t over your ex or what happened deep down)? Most definitely NOT!

We're eliminating the root cause!

Surface level work doesn’t cut it when we have deep-rooted relationship patterns that run on auto-pilot and results in us getting our hearts broken over and over again.

Understanding what these patterns are is your ticket out of Relationship-Hells-Ville and into the arms of your trustworthy and drool-worthy soulmate lover. 

I’m Marlena, a psychotherapist, international relationship coach and codependency expert.  I have always loved love … only back then I didn’t realise that what I thought of love was actually toxic (later, I learnt that I was actually codependent).

I’d had enough of being lied to in my relationships, being pushed around, intimidated, cheated on, constantly put down and criticised, undermined, disregarded and emotionally neglected and abused.

I didn’t understand why men treated me the way they did - after all, I was ‘the good girl’ in my relationships: I didn’t nag, didn’t make a fuss, got on with things, bottled up my feelings, was as accommodating as possible, forgave bad behaviour so easily, rarely ever said no, did what was expected of me, didn’t ask for much, was easily pleased, was fiercely loyal and kept the peace …

I mean HOW much more easy-going could I possibly be?!

But it didn't work out. I was miserable and felt alone. I was DONE! 

But instead of swearing off all men, I decided to empower myself to LEARN how to love and how to BE loved – the healthy, right, dream couple kinda way – NOT the way my parents, culture, and social circle had taught me was acceptable as a child.

After learning all about creating healthy relationships  and going on to break my own toxic relationship patterns through what I learnt, I was able to not only teach my therapy clients how to overcome some of the same feelings, experiences, and codependent patterns I once had, but also attract MY DREAM soulmate.

Together we've created a life we love, are encouraging and supporting each other to build incredible careers and, most importantly, have created a loving, healthy and fun family!

But it didn't just work out for me.

My clients transformed their love lives too!

Working with me, they were able to

leave toxic relationships within weeks of working with me (relationships that they felt stuck in for decades!)

learn how to choose a trustworthy and loving soulmate and then attract their dream partner 4 months later
attract a perfect match once they got clear on what to look out for and travel the world in soulmate bliss
rebuild their self-confidence so they felt comfortable and secure to set boundaries with those they love

Life and love finally became easy and fun for them!

I Know You're Ready For Real Love Too!


Maybe like me, and so many of my independent, successful and ambitious clients, you have also suffered in intimate relationships in the past but are now ready to finally:

Attract a trustworthy, soulmate partner who puts their arms around you tight when you feel worried or insecure, reassuring you that they NEVER want to lose you either and aren’t willing to do ANYTHING that would risk that happening.
Focus on making your life fun and your biggest dreams come true - without worrying and obsessing about your relationship, dating status, stability, or future because you know that your partner is totally in love with you, won’t let you down, and is definitely here to stay.
 Enjoy date nights out, cosy partner foot rubs or massages, Netflix binges with pizza in bed, or attending weddings together knowing there won’t be any drama or tension, but simply a lot of fun, laughter, romance, and memorable moments together that won’t ever end.
 Finally feel truly worthy of love and respect because you are receiving it every single day just for being you - without feeling like there’s a catch, hiding your feelings or faking a smile to keep the peace, or avoiding tough conversations because you’re afraid they’ll leave.
 Say what’s in your heart and on your mind without having to walk on eggshells because you and your partner are totally in sync and on the same page in your communication, goals, and life plans.

Now I want you to have your amazing love life transformation too.

Introducing... 
Detox Your Love Life

A 6-Week 1-1 Experience Helping You to End Toxic Relationship Patterns and Learn How to Attract a Loving and Trustworthy Long-Term Partner

Understand yourself like 
never before

Become more secure and confident within yourself

Begin to set boundaries confidently and without guilt

Become an energetic match for 
your soulmate

Feel supported, excited and
 have more energy

Finally matter in your own life and get what you want

Detox Your Love Life 

Break Toxic Relationship Patterns For Good & 
Attract A Trustworthy Forever Soulmate Lover

 6 Private 1-1 Sessions with Marlena

(valued at $297 each)
6 x 50 minutes support and coaching - 1 session per week

 In-Between Session Support

(valued at $475 per week)
Personal weekday Voxer support for in-between sessions

 Weekly ​Transformative Activities

(valued at $125 each)
Powerful healing activities that are crystal clear, highly effective and easy to implement with maximum results leading to more wellbeing and love

Plus These 3 Incredible Bonuses!

 ​Your Relationship Reality Check (value $1242)

Discover the top mistakes couples make in their relationship that veer 
them to the road of break-up, loss and pain.

 ​Instant Anxiety Relief Kit (value $97)

Create your customised anxiety plan to ensure greater peace of mind 
and feeling in control of your fears, insecurities and worries.

 ​The Official Codependency Assessment (value $374)

Identify if codependency is limiting your success in relationships and receive an in-depth assessment that highlights the exact causes of your relationship problems
Total Price = $7095
Special Price = $1750

 Here's What My Clients Say

An email from my 1-1 private client 
who took my 8 week Clarity Cure program
A message from my 1-1 client Ana 
who worked with me for 4 months
A lovely message from an independent woman who 
took part in my 'Emotional Connection' training 
Feedback from a very special person who took part in my group program 'Fully Connected'

Here's What You'll Learn

Let me show you what we'll be working on during our 6 weeks together ...

Week 1

Week 1

Identifying Your Toxic Relationship Patterns

Identifying Your Toxic Relationship Patterns

  • Identify the core cause for why you seem to magnetise partners to you who treat you horribly, cheat or lie, emotionally neglect you, or won’t commit to a relationship so you can heal from your ex and build self-awareness that allows for you to have a happy relationship without all the drama.

Week 2

Debugging Your Conditioning & Relationship Programming

Week 2

Debugging Your Conditioning & Relationship Programming

  • Shift your mindset from tolerating being “second choice,” constantly prioritising your partner’s needs over yours, and having your feelings or needs invalidated and dismissed in your relationship, to finding the confidence to ask for what you want from your partner, getting what you want from your relationship, and setting boundaries that earn you the love and respect you crave from your lover.

Week 3

Eliminating Your Toxic Match

Week 3

Eliminating Your Toxic Match

  • Become repelled by the toxic, selfish, and emotionally unavailable partners you used to feel so drawn to and learn how to determine if someone you’re dating is actually going to be kind, trustworthy and caring when the honeymoon stage wears off. 
  • ​You’ll learn how to attract partners who are interested in supporting your dreams, building goals with you long-term, and take pride in getting to know you on a deeper level (not just for intimate moments).

Week 4

Saying NO to Toxic Offers

Week 4

Saying NO to Toxic Offers

  • Spot red flags in a heartbeat so you can decline to join the drama, can catch a smooth-talker in his/her tracks, and spot a player before you’re part of their game. Never be caught out again!

Week 5

Attracting Soulmate Love 
from the Inside Out

Week 5

Attracting Soulmate Love from The Inside Out

  • Heal and transform to become the person you need to be to attract the soulmate partner you want by your side. Together we will clarify your relationship vision so you know exactly what you expect from your partner and what practical steps or skills you need to attract someone who not only wants to give you what you want in life, but will also do it alongside you (and not just during the honeymoon period but for the rest of your life!).

Week 6

Future-Proof Your Detox

Week 6

Future-Proof Your Detox

  • Learn my powerful, secret Thrive framework that naturally raises the standards you set in relationships so that you never settle for being an emotional doormat or dumping ground ever again.
  • ​You’ll stay strong and drop partners with mood swings that send you into massive confusion about your place in the relationship, and instead, stay emotionally present, secure in yourself, and never drop your priorities and dreams in favour of THEIR relationship drama again.
What you’ll learn will stick with you forever. 

Once you discover this new way of thinking about love and relationships, it won't make sense to go back to unhealthy ways of thinking or behaving.

What you’ll learn will change your life. 

Aimee, US x

Marlena helped me see how what I believed about myself created so many of my problems.

For example, I though that I needed to be supportive of my partner no matter how he behaved and so he got away with really horrible behaviour.

It never made sense to me then but since working with Marlena it does.

There were so many things I believed that stopped me from having a healthy relationship - I just couldn't see it then. 

Now that I have developed a healthy relationship mindset, I am kind, respectful AND assertive. 

That's totally changed my relationship and made it a million times better!

 Get Ready for Real Love!

When unloving, unhealthy and unsupportive relationships is all you've ever known, then your brain will guide you to re-create those over and over again ... until you consciously break that toxic relationship pattern.

Finding yourself in toxic relationships or being treated by the person you love the most is not your fault. You have done nothing to deserve this and it does't reflect badly on you. 

And still, you need to take charge of healing the parts of you that feel drawn to 'toxic love'. The parts that don't feel worthy of real, respectful love just yet. 

As long as the conditioning our parents taught us and our culture later reinforced is running the show, we will continue to feel a strong pull to others who don't know how to connect with us and love us in all the wonderful ways we know are possible.

You know you can love deeply and I know you're ready to take the step to make that happen. Life is too short and you're done waiting around hoping to get lucky and find someone worthy of your love.

It's time to look in the mirror and realise that person has been there all along. You were just looking in the wrong direction. This changes now.

And when things shift and change within, they also begin to fall in place on the outside where you begin to live a life of EPIC LOVE.

Marlena Tillhon Love Expert

Detox Your Love Life 

Break Toxic Relationship Patterns For Good & 
Attract A Trustworthy Forever Soulmate Lover

 6 Private 1-1 Sessions with Marlena

(valued at $297 each)
6 x 50 minutes support and coaching - 1 session per week

 In-Between Session Support

(valued at $475 per week)
Personal weekday Voxer support for in-between sessions

 Weekly ​Transformative Activities

(valued at $125 each)
Powerful healing activities that are crystal clear, highly effective and easy to implement with maximum results leading to more wellbeing and love

Plus These 3 Incredible Bonuses!

 ​Your Relationship Reality Check (value $1242)

Discover the top mistakes couples make in their relationship that veer 
them to the road of break-up, loss and pain.

 ​Instant Anxiety Relief Kit (value $97)

Create your customised anxiety plan to ensure greater peace of mind 
and feeling in control of your fears, insecurities and worries.

 ​The Official Codependency Assessment (value $375)

Identify if codependency is limiting your success in relationships and receive an in-depth assessment that highlights the exact causes of your relationship problems
Total Price = $7095
Special Price = $1750

This Course Is Perfect For You If...

  You are ready to invest in yourself and say YES to receiving professional, expert support in making your relationship dreams come true with practical, logical and effective ways.
  You are focusing on moving forward, finding solutions, and making change happen in your love life (instead of going over old grounds and rehashing the past like you’d typically do in therapy).
  You are an action-taker, highly motivated, and completely unwilling to give up on getting the love you want. As a result, you’re SO ready to immediately implement what you learn during the program to finally get the partner you want NOW.

What does working with me at a high level look like?


I take an empowering and proactive approach in my work which means that I won't just passively sit and listen and hope you'll work it out by yourself. 

We'll work as part of a team to figure out exactly what's been going on for you and how to turn it around so you can finally get the real love you want!

You'll benefit from my non-judgemental understanding (because I've been there myself!), my ongoing healing and growth journey and my professional expertise and practice. I'm not just talking the talk - I'm living it! And I'm proof that it works!

So here's how we'll work together:

6 private 50 minute long 1-to-1 calls during our 6 weeks together where we will piece together your dating history, find the root cause holding you back from attracting your soulmate, and get you back in the right dating mindset to repel the “bad boys,” cheaters, liars, and toxic partners of your past (and future!).

Weekday Voxer support in between calls so you can get on the fast track to your healing journey, shift your mindset daily towards soulmate vibes, and break unhealthy habits you do daily that hold you back from feeling confident, empowered and excited about your future or current relationship. 

6 Transformational Activities to work through in between sessions to increase your self-awareness so that you can make better choices for yourself, say no when you want to say no, and set boundaries when you need to.

With Love, Marlena x

You'll Also Receive These Amazing Bonuses

Your Relationship Reality Check Course

Discover the top mistakes couples make in their relationship that veer them to the road of break-up, loss and pain so you can stop it before it's too late!

The Instant Anxiety Relief Kit

Create your own soothing and calming routine so you know exactly what to do when anxiety strikes - never fear anxiety again!

The Instant Anxiety Relief Kit for a Peaceful Mind

Create your own soothing and calming routine so you know exactly what to do when anxiety strikes - never fear anxiety again!

The Official Codependency Assessment

Identify if codependency is limiting your success in relationships and receive an in-depth assessment that highlights the exact causes of your relationship problems.

All of these are included for free when you choose to 'Detox Your Love Life' today! 

Say YES to Fast-Track Transformation

But Marlena, are you sure that this works? I mean, it’s only 6 weeks and I’ve been in toxic relationships for most of my life so what are the chances … ?

YES! I hear you and I completely understand.

We’ve all been told that healing from toxic relationship takes years, if it happens at all, and that you need a gazillion different types of therapy to make that work - but from my personal and professional experience, when you attack the root cause that’s creating a string of relationships that go south repeatedly, the crappy relationships you used to be in start to simply dissolve in your new dating approach.

It’s just like removing the root of a weed and eliminating it completely. If, however, you don’t address the root cause, you will forever keep sniping away the leaves that keep popping up.

Until you not only uncover the root cause, patterns, beliefs, and subconscious wiring in your brain (that most people aren’t even aware of or notice until an expert shows you), you’ll continue to attract crappy relationships, people who take advantage of you, and an unlucky dating track record.

I don’t want that for you – that’s why this 6-week intensive will teach you things you need to know to avoid ever finding yourself in another toxic relationship again.

Lydia, UK x

I went from one relationship disaster to the next - at one point I actually thought I was cursed!

After the end of a long-term relationship, I felt broken. I couldn't put myself through it all again and so I started working wit Marlena.

She helped me understand where I had been going wrong and gave me a completely new way of seeing things.

She actually taught me how to be healthy in relationships, how to think about it, what to look out for and how to really relax into it. 

It's changed everything for me and I am now for the first time ever happy in love! 

This Course Is Definitely NOT For You If...

 You are not ready to take action, change your dating or relationship patterns, or take responsibility for your healing and moving forward.
You want to try and do it all by yourself without any support because you’re not ready to open up and trust another person to help you heal.
You want to gain knowledge but not actually implement any of it in your life or take action to move from feeling like a helpless victim to feeling fully empowered.

Paul, UK

I literally spent most of my adult life trying to figure out what went wrong – why, as a relatively smart and competent guy, was my life constantly falling apart? After years of trying to work it out, looking everywhere for answers, whilst all the time making the same mistakes, it took me hitting rock bottom – to finally accept that I needed help. I wasn’t going to find the answers on my own. 

Marlena was the first person I have met (and I have worked with and learned from many, many people) – who has successfully worked through the same issues that I was dealing with, had figured it out, and learned how to ‘teach’ the information in a way that is spot on for me. But most importantly, Marlena has acquired the experience and skills to work with people very effectively.

I discovered a whole new world – a world where my old thinking and choices and actions made complete sense. Where I learned where my behaviours came from, what caused them.

Most importantly, I found a person I could trust. I trusted Marlena’s information – about what is ok and what is not. About what is functional and what is not. What ought to be acceptable and what not. Where the problems really came from, as opposed to where they looked like they came from. I realised I didn’t know those things! It was like an epiphany. Everything started falling into place. And things changed quickly for me. 

A Reminder of What You'll Get

Detox Your Love Life 

Break Toxic Relationship Patterns For Good & 
Attract A Trustworthy Forever Soulmate Lover

 6 Private 1-1 Sessions with Marlena

 In-Between Session Support

 Weekly ​Transformative Activities

Plus These 3 Incredible Bonuses!

 ​Your Relationship Reality Check (value $1242)

 ​Instant Anxiety Relief Kit (value $97)

 ​The Official Codependency Assessment (value $375)

Total Price = $7095
Special Price = $1750

Receive Incredible Bonuses!

Find out exactly how to go from a toxic relationship to a loving one and never wonder again if it’s ‘just you’ or whether you’re too sensitive (ugh!). 

The 'Relationship Reality Check' course consists of 6 modules and outlines the biggest relationship killers and causes for why our love life turns toxic, so you’ll no longer have to guess where it’s all going wrong and instead, have a clear strategy outline for how to repair your relationship straight away or make the decision to drop them like a hot pocket (confidently with no rebound or boomerang back to them!). 

HINT: My client Lola did the Relationship Reality Check and recognised that her relationship problems were caused by a lack of emotional safety and availability. She used the program to create more safety and less reactivity in her relationship, reduced conflicts and tension (creating a more relaxed approach to their love), and gained the confidence to approach difficult conversations without a blow-out war. 

They were able to make a long-term commitment to each other by the end of the program because they no longer were each other’s enemies, but were now dedicated to eliminating and preventing past toxic patterns in their relationship from happening again.

Frequently Asked Questions

When do I start?
You can start as soon as have arranged a day and time that consistently works for us over the next 6 weeks. There's no reason why we have to delay your big transformation! 
How does it work?
You will have access to your bonuses straight away and will also receive your assessment and induction documents  to get a head start before our first session. 

During our sessions, we will explore your pattern, identify love blocks and parts of your conditioning that hold you back and decide on transformative action that you'll implement during the week.
What is expected of me?
Take action and implement what you learn. Feedback to me. Let me support you while empowering yourself more and more.
What if I’m not happy?
As this is a customised service during which you'll have access to my time and expertise, the refund policy doesn't apply. I am certain that you understand this. 

However, your happiness is really important to me, so should there be anything you are not happy about, it's important for you to share this with me so we can talk about it and find a mutually acceptable solution. Please message me at directly in our Voxer chat.

Act Now To Save $5345!

Total Price = $5596
Special Price = $1750